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It's a Group Thing LIV
Today's "It's a Group Thing" term is:
A Bored of Trustees
For those of you who missed what this is all about, each week I will feature a term for groups of things from An Exaltation of Larks: The Ultimate Edition by James Lipton. I found the book really interesting and wanted to share it with everyone.
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Reasons For Love #25
Every Wednesday those who are involved in a relationship with somebody share a few (simple but significant) reasons for their love. Please keep in mind that this does not have to be a romantic relationship. It can be about a parent, a sibling, a friend, a co-worker, your kid, your dog, whatever.
Stop in here to join the notify list, see who else has left their reasons, and to be added to the blogroll. Also, feel free to save the button below to your server and link it to http://www.neuroticfishbowl.com/reasons.html
I thought I'd keep the Bloggy Love In alive a little bit longer, so I love Kristine because...
- She's always ready to lend a hand to help people out as evidenced by all her posts at the Movable Type Forums
- She always has a kind word to share with someone in need
- She's a fabulous designer
- She's so scripty smart and able to come up with an answer to something that's been bugging you for days just like that
- She's silly and girly and always makes me giggle
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Awwww, you are so freakin' sweet! That was such a neato surprise to find when I opened your site just now! :) {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}
Posted by kristine at April 30, 2003 10:24 PM
Mine are up :)
Posted by Erica at May 1, 2003 12:09 AM
I love my cat, Hunisch, because she has stuck with me for 20 years! She has seen me through 3 major relationships and is still a cool little blue-eyed furball! 
Sure hope I posted this in the right place as part of your Reasons For Love posts~
Posted by Sherry at May 1, 2003 01:15 AM
Will get my 'reasons 4 love' up later. Cool blog! Hugs, Lil x
Posted by Lil at May 1, 2003 08:24 AM
Mine are up :)
Posted by julia at May 1, 2003 07:46 PM
mine are up ;)
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Another Nap
Yet another nap for me this afternoon after I got home. I've just been so tired ever since I started taking the Paxil. I go back to the doctor next week to discuss how the medicine's working for me and I'm definitely going to mention how exhausted I feel. At least I haven't been feeling as nauseous these last few days.
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So sorry you're having a tough time of it... hugs
Posted by gingersmack at April 29, 2003 11:23 PM
I hope that Paxil (or another SSRI, or possibly a new type of NSRI) works well for you, but you might want to think twice about using Paxil.
I don't want to scare you, but I would be wary of Paxil.
My girlfriend had severe withdrawal issues when getting off of paxil (as her body had become accustomed[sp?] to it). To the point of almost committing suicide.
Sites like http://www.quitpaxil.org/ show some of the dangers and information about withdrawal symptoms.
Posted by Scott at April 29, 2003 11:30 PM
I can sympathize. When I had to go on anti-depressants for anxiety related issues in 94 the doctor put me on Zoloft and it was an immediate success with no side effects when we decided I could stop taking it.
Mike on the other hand has never found an anti-depressant combination that works for him.
Hugs and hopes that you're somewhere between Mike and I and the next drug you try will be the perfect fit.
Posted by Cis at April 30, 2003 12:21 AM
I hope you feel better!
Posted by :: jozjozjoz :: at April 30, 2003 12:59 AM
if it wipes you out, try taking it at night. prozac used to do the same thing to me, and that's what i did (i was an insomniac anyway).
of course, check with your doc before you do it, but its worth trying.
hope you feel better soon!
Posted by webgrrlie at April 30, 2003 07:02 AM
I was the same way when I was on Paxil. I could never seem to get enough rest. Hope you find something that works for you!
Posted by Jen at April 30, 2003 10:48 AM
I have to take mine in the morning and my allergy meds at night because I was getting groggy when driving to and from work. I'd try changing when you take it (and, of course, talking to the doctor).
Posted by Lisa, Gal of Unix at April 30, 2003 10:01 PM
hope you feel better soon and the side effects wear off sooner.
Posted by Martie at April 30, 2003 11:23 PM
I was the same way when I took Paxil. I was always so tired and I fell asleep a lot earlier than I normally would. I couldn't stay awake no matter how hard I tried.
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Tired and Blah
I'm still feeling pretty tired and blah today, I'm guessing from the one-two punch of Aunt Flow and the Paxil. It was all I could do today to keep my eyes open, so I'm headed back to the couch to relax a little longer. Sorry for all the boring, whiny posts lately!
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ugh! rest and relax if you can! i'd been planning on pulling a late-night paper writing session, but i realize now that if i don't sleep for a few hours, my brain will mushify and i'll be useless. so i feel ya, sister! shut eye is good!
Posted by natalie at April 28, 2003 11:07 PM
awww. poor kymberlie. you seem like a perfect candidate for me to send some lovin to (yes, i'm finally getting around to this from last Friday). feel better soon! love ya!
Posted by mikey at April 29, 2003 12:11 AM
You take care of you, and we will all be here when you feel better.
Posted by ginadapooh at April 29, 2003 12:21 AM
I hope you feel better soon!
Posted by daisy at April 29, 2003 07:56 AM
Ahh the dreaded aunt flow. Hope you feel better soon.
Posted by Martie at April 29, 2003 07:13 PM
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Easter Picnic
We're off to Steven's mother's church to celebrate Greek Orthodox Easter. Everyone have a great Sunday and I'll see you when I get back!
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Project Blog Pays Off
Earlier this year Rannie posted about Project Blog. I went to the site to see what it's about and decided to sign up.
Yesterday I got an e-mail from them saying that one of their clients, Nokia, noted how I use photography on my site and would like to send me a Nokia 3650 - a cell phone with a built-in digital camera along with other features like a calendar and contact manger, wireless web browsing, and more. It comes with two months service through T-Mobile and at the end of the test period, I get to keep the phone.
Needless to say, I am completely psyched about this. They're shipping the phone early next week, so I'll even have it in time to take it with me to Vegas. Many thanks to Rannie for the link in the first place.
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Wow, how cool is that?? I am so proud of you. 
I just want to say I love you for your kindness, patience, and innovativeness. (is that a word?) Anyway, I think you are a terrrific person, and I am glad to know you!
Posted by Tricia at April 26, 2003 08:36 PM
Are you sure it's not someone playing a trick on you? It sounds very "too good to be true". I hope it's not though. Cool toy!!
Posted by Jessica Parker at April 26, 2003 09:19 PM
VERY cool, Kymberlie!! :)
Posted by Crystal at April 26, 2003 10:43 PM
It's worth a whirl...thanks for the link!
Posted by Sherry at April 27, 2003 03:23 AM
Geez, could they use one more person? That's awesome Kymberlie! You have to share what you think about the phone when you get it, I was kinda thinking of getting one of those. :)
Posted by carla at April 27, 2003 03:29 PM
I wish I could have a phone like that... Congrats anyway, I hope you enjoy using it :).
Posted by Neil T. at April 28, 2003 02:06 AM
Whoa. That's huge. Good for you!
Posted by Susan at April 28, 2003 01:52 PM
Awesome! Congratulations!
Posted by Cis at April 30, 2003 12:25 AM
That is so cool. congrats and hope you can share your piccies soon. ;)
Posted by Martie at May 1, 2003 12:24 AM
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About Last Night....
I was going to come home yesterday and spread the love, but I called my mother to see what they were up to. She said they were going to go eat dinner with Russell (my brother) and his girlfriend. Now, my dad isn't one for going places, but I went ahead and suggested they join us at Chinese Cafe (about an hour from where they live). Much to my surprise, my dad was all for it.
We met them at the restaurant and stuffed ourselves on delicious Chinese food. We got home about 9:30 and did something very rare for us - went to bed. I don't think we've been asleep that early ever.
Needless to say, I didn't get to spread a lot of love, but I plan on doing that today and maybe a bit tomorrow. Hope everyone had as nice a Friday as I did!
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I turned this into a spread the love weekend and I just wanted to say I love your blog! You come up with cool projects like the cd exchange and always make me smile in some way or another. So I love you! :)
Posted by eve at April 26, 2003 09:16 PM
you spread the love to me and that was sooooo considerate! of course, anyone who reads your blog can tell what a sweetheart you are.
Posted by natalie at April 27, 2003 01:57 AM
I always smile when I read about your latest Amazon purchases or the newest computer game that you are addicted to. I love how obsessed you are with truly girly pursuits like nail polish and self-portraits. Not to mention what a wonderful home you've given former problem-child Bella.
You're just totally my kind of woman, sweetie! Feel better soon!
Posted by Cis at April 30, 2003 01:37 AM
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Happy Birthday, Kristine!
Today is that wonderful, amazing, Scripty Goddess-like girl Kristine's birthday.
I hope you have an incredible day, sweetie, filled with lots of love, presents, and chocolate.   
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Awww, thanks :) You are so sweet, and I am so lucky to have you as a friend!! {{{hugs}}}}
Posted by kristine at April 25, 2003 01:35 PM
Happy Birthday, Kristine!! 
Posted by kim at April 25, 2003 02:33 PM
She's so lucky! Her birthday is also National Zucchini Bread Day!
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Getting the Love
Okay, ignore me. I had no idea what I was doing on this post with that plugin. However, my comments have become filled with Bloggy Loving, which I plan on going and spreading later today (and probably tomorrow) when I get a chance.
So go spread some love and tell people why you love them!
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 It's love fest day. I'm sending love to you blog because you're wonderful!!
Posted by reality at April 25, 2003 07:52 AM
Hey girlie, just wanted to swing by as part of the love-in and let you know that while I don't comment often, I am always kicking around and thinking of you. You're awesome, and I love that you share so much of yourself with us. Yay for you!!
Posted by erika at April 25, 2003 09:59 AM
Happy Love-In Day!
Posted by jason at April 25, 2003 12:10 PM
spreading the love
Posted by Tasha at April 25, 2003 12:12 PM
Sending you some Linky-love. I'm so glad to have meet you (not in person...yet) you are always so nice and caring and posting the nicest things to see, wonder about and laugh about. Thanks!
Posted by susan at April 25, 2003 12:15 PM
I love your blog and I especially love that you started a CD swap!! Thanks for the great reading - I'm a fan!!
Posted by Meredith at April 25, 2003 01:03 PM
Hey girlie, you're a wonderful friend...always so open and giving! Thank you for always being there! Hugs!
Posted by Crystal at April 25, 2003 01:24 PM
Hey, Happy Love In Day! Just wanted to drop by and let you know that my day is not complete without a couple of visits to your site. Love ya! Thanks!!!
Posted by Buzz at April 25, 2003 01:31 PM
happy blogger love-in day Kym!
Posted by P at April 25, 2003 01:32 PM
Kymberlie, Happy Love In day. Whizzing by to say, thank you, for your site, the glimpses that you allow us, for your caring, for the laughter, for your insights, but most of all for you!
*squishy hugs*
Posted by munin at April 25, 2003 03:10 PM
Sending some love for you! You're a very nice person, Kymberlie. Have a great weekend. 
Posted by Beatriz at April 25, 2003 03:17 PM
I came to take part in the love fest! Love you, love your blog, love your layout, love your smilies! xoxo!
Posted by Shanni at April 25, 2003 03:48 PM
Stopping by to send you love! I love your site designs. I love your stories. I love hearing about the sweet Bella kitten. I love the posts about it's a group thing. I love that you put together the CD swap. I love that you always have such neat plugins. I love that your writing makes me wish you were a real life friend also!
Posted by ginadapooh at April 25, 2003 04:37 PM
I've jumped on the bandwagon for the "love-in" http://www.snazzykat.com/archives/003601.php#003601
I love you because...you love Bella so much and took her in when she needed a home. I also love that you always take time to help someone out in the blog world.
Posted by daisy at April 25, 2003 05:12 PM
Happy Love-In Day, my friend! :-)
Posted by Christine M. at April 25, 2003 05:16 PM
Just stoping by during the Blogger Love-In to say thank you for being there - you're wonderful and I feel truly lucky to have you in my life:) Hope you're feeling better!
Posted by Daphne at April 25, 2003 05:49 PM
I love you because you're a breath of fresh air and a terrific resource for books to read! Thank you for being in my life.
Posted by Christine at April 26, 2003 10:17 AM
hiya punkin'. :) i'm late getting to all my bloggy loves, but i'm slowly making my way around the blogosphere. and now for your turn:
kymberlie, i looooove you for your exuberance, kindness, and friendly nature. i like to visit your web house because you're a cheery spirit, and it's nice to stand around the warmth of your fire. ~xoxo
Posted by bran at April 27, 2003 10:01 PM
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Thanks To Everyone
I'm still not feeling well (headachy and a bit nauseous; once again, not sure if it's the Paxil, the PMS, or both), but I wanted to take a minute and thank everyone that's left a comment here or sent me an e-mail in the past week.
I am so grateful and so touched by the amount of positive thoughts and love that has been sent to me. A lot of the time lately I've been feeling very cut off from the world, but I see that that is definitely not the case.
I really want to thank all of you for your kindness. Never would I have expected so many people to raise their hand and say, "I'm here if you need me."
I'm going to try and send out e-mails to everyone soon, but Greek Orthodox Easter is this weekend (Steven's mother is Greek Orthodox), so we're going to be pretty busy and I don't know how much time I'll have online. Just know that you have all made me feel very special and I so appreciate it.
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Hope you get to feeling better very soon. Take it easy this weekend! :)
Posted by Kelly at April 24, 2003 10:29 PM
I am glad you are improving, btw, quick question, did those CD's ever get to you?
I just want to make sure you got them and that no stranger is listening to your CD's right now. lol. Let me know.
Have fun this weekend. Staying busy is usually the best way to forget that you have any ailments. :D
Posted by fran at April 24, 2003 11:27 PM
I've been thinking of you ... hope all is well and that you're feeling better soon!
Posted by Christine at April 24, 2003 11:44 PM
Hang in there girl, here hoping tomorrow today is better
Posted by Martie at April 25, 2003 02:09 AM
hope you're feeling better soon!! *hugs*
Posted by Tasha at April 25, 2003 08:22 AM
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Worst Headache Ever
I've got a terrible, terrible headache right now. You know the kind that makes you feel sick to your stomach and like your head is going to explode? Yeah, that's how I feel right now. I'm not sure if it's the Paxil, PMS, or both, but it sucks.
In other news, I have something that I'd really like to happen, so cross your fingers for me and wish me luck. 
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dang, sorry to hear about your headache (I read about it on WanderLust right after I posted my update -- I said, 'Hey, I know her!').
Your headache almost sounds like caffeine withdrawal ... at least that's how it is for me ...
Posted by brykMantra at April 23, 2003 06:27 PM
You know, I learned growing up with my sisters that it is never wise for a guy to provide advice on any headaches related to the female body functions,
so,
Instead I'll just think good thoughts and hope you feel better.
Oh, Good luck with what you are hoping there to happen. :D
Posted by fran at April 23, 2003 06:30 PM
*hugs*
is that better?!
Posted by :: jozjozjoz :: at April 23, 2003 06:50 PM
My wife gets migraines every now and then (which is what this sounds like) and she sometimes feels better when she puts a warm washcloth over her eyes and just lies back and relaxes. Either that or a good stiff....drink. Just a thought.
Posted by Buzz at April 23, 2003 07:34 PM
I'll give you the penny I picked up today - it was heads up when I found it - which is extra good luck - I'll share it with you if it'll help.
Posted by eve at April 23, 2003 10:26 PM
Ooooh, a migraine. I get those every month like clock-work...with my PMS. Mine is Birth Control Pill induced. I had a migraine that lasted 2 days once. OIY! I did not begin migraines until I got on BC pills. I hope your head will get better soon.
Posted by Rilana at April 23, 2003 11:36 PM
I remember awhile back, when Mike was taking some pills for depression. They bothered him, causing headaches and tummyaches, so he stopped taking them. I will have to ask him what pills they were.
In his case, the depression was caused by outside sources, and those have pretty much been eliminated, so now all he needs to do is come home and pet cats.
If this keeps up, go back to the doctor. You don't have to live in pain!
{{{hugs}}}
Posted by Christine M. at April 24, 2003 02:51 AM
Oh...and good luck with whatever it is you are hoping for! I hope it happens...I'll be thinking of ya!
Posted by Christine M. at April 24, 2003 02:53 AM
Poor you! Hope you're feeling better soon. Hugs, Lil x
Posted by Lil at April 24, 2003 07:08 AM
Fingers crossed over here!
Posted by Lisa, Gal of Unix at April 24, 2003 09:56 AM
fingers crossed for what it is you want to happen aswell as feeling better soon. 
Posted by LillyAnne at April 24, 2003 12:22 PM
Two sets of fingers are crossed. One for the headache (and associated symptoms) being over quickly, and one for whatever you want to happen.
Posted by Jeff at April 24, 2003 01:27 PM
Feel better soon (((Kym))) and...
*fingers crossed*
Posted by gingersmack at April 24, 2003 04:33 PM
keeping fingers, toes, eyes and all other appropriate appendages crossed for you! Hoping you feel better soon. *hugs*
Posted by munin at April 24, 2003 04:38 PM
Ugh....that definitely sounds like a migraine. I get those. When you can't even THINK about having light around, because your eyeballs might fall out of their sockets. Where sometimes, if you just go ahead and make yourself vomit (yeah, yeah, i know), you will feel infinitely better almost immediately. soon girl.
And good luck with whatever it is. :D
Posted by Tricia at April 24, 2003 05:04 PM
Much luck and love back at'cha! I hope you start feeling better soon.
Posted by Lisa at April 25, 2003 05:18 PM
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Burn It Info on its Way!
I just finished sending out all the group information for Burn It - The Spring Edition, so watch your inbox for it. Thirty-eight people signed up, so I just may make this a seasonal thing.
If you signed up and didn't get your info, e-mail me and I'll look into it. Happy burning! 
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DOH! I knew I forgot to do something yesterday!
Is it too late for me to participate?!?!
Posted by :: jozjozjoz :: at April 23, 2003 12:47 AM
JozJozJoz... if it is, I will send you one of mine from the group. No problem, babe.
Kym, let me know, I'll send multiple if it'll make up... just give me enough notice, K?
Posted by gingersmack at April 23, 2003 03:22 AM
lol my best friend and I got added to the same group!
Posted by Mandie at April 23, 2003 06:40 AM
I'll be happy to send one to JozJozJoz, too... let me know! :)
Posted by Meredith at April 23, 2003 08:13 AM
Thanks for organizing this! In fact, you should let all 37 other people send you copies of their mixes, kind of as a finders fee ... !
Posted by brykMantra at April 23, 2003 11:40 AM
that's a good idea!
Posted by Mandie at April 23, 2003 07:28 PM
Too late to play? I just saw this. Damn, I'd hate to hafta wait till the next go-round.
Posted by Buzz at April 23, 2003 07:42 PM
brykMantra - that is a good idea.
Kym, i'll add you to my list if you send me the address.
Posted by P at April 23, 2003 11:23 PM
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I May Never Go Back
I got a wild hair and decided to try and design a site from the thoughts in my head for the boarding place that I'm taking Bella to next month. While doing this I decided to see what all the fuss was about and try out some brushes in PhotoShop. After figuring out how to use them, I must say I'm hooked! Who would have know it was so easy to create such fabulous looks! I may never go back to designing without them!
My thanks to That Tart for being my inspiration to see what they could do. She has some fabulous new skins up, so go check them out if you haven't already.
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I love brushes! It's so cool and I like looking at the new ones made by other people - graphicgoo.net has an awesome archive of brushes and how to steps in design. :)
Posted by susan at April 22, 2003 10:09 PM
heh heh. I knew it. You'll be a full-fledged addict in no time.
Posted by that tart at April 25, 2003 08:43 AM
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Last Day to Burn It
Just a reminder, but today is the last day to sign up for Burn It - The Spring Edition. So far we already have over thirty participants, so get your information in and join us. In case you missed it the first time around, here's the info again.
I've noticed how a pervasive theme out in the blogosphere right now is how everyone is enjoying the weather, putting down their sunroof, windows, or convertible top, and blasting their music while they drive. I've always loved having good driving music, so inspired by some spring weather and Alison's CD Swap, I've decided to do one of my own: Burn It - The Spring Edition.
The Theme:
Music that makes you want to roll down your windows/open your sunroof/put down your convertible top and sing along at the top of your lungs. It's spring time and I want music that makes you feel good. It doesn't haven't to be a happy song, but it does have to be great music to drive to.
Here's how it works:
After the signup period, people will be put into groups of 4. You will then receive an e-mail from me telling you the names and addresses of the people in your group. You burn 4 identical CDs. Keep one for yourself and send the other three to the other people in your group. You should then receive three new CDs from the other three people in your group.
The rules:
- You should have a blog. I would like this to be a fun way to connect people in the blogosphere. If you don't, go over to Diaryland or Blogspot and start one for free.
- If you're not going to follow through and make your CDs, please don't bother signing up. It would be a shame if one or two people ruined this for their group.
- You must live in the US or Canada. If there's a intrest in this in other areas, I may do a swap at some point down the road that includes other countries, but since this is the first swap, I'm going to limit it to the areas where I know most of you guys live.
- If you live in the US, you should be willing to ship to Canada. If you live in Canada, you should be willing to ship to the US. The postage is a teeny bit more, but nothing that's going to break the bank.
- Remember that most people can't play mp3s in their car, so make sure they're something that will play in a standard car stereo. I tend to use cda or wav files.
Guidlines on creating your CDs:
- Include a track listing. If someone like an artist, they might want to buy more music by them. Let us know who it is.
- Fill up the CD as much as you can. There's 80 minutes on a blank CD. Don't half-ass it and make a 30 minute CD.
- You should definitely use a jewel case when sending your CDs to protect it during mailing. You can get them cheap anywhere.
- I know a lot of people are graphically inclined, so feel free to make your CD a work of art.
- Don't be afraid to put on "cheesy" music. If you like it, others probably will too.
- Don't be afraid to put on music that no one has ever heard before either. Billboard or MTV may never have known this music, but you did, so that's what counts.
If you've gotten this far and you still want to sign up, send an e-mail (change the AT to an @ in my e-mail address) to me and make sure you reference the swap in the subject line. You must include the following information:
- Your name
- Mailing address
- Your blog URL
Signups will continue through Monday, April 21st. By Thursday, April 24th, I will send e-mails to everyone letting you know who is in your group. You should have all of your CDs burned and in the mail NO LATER THAN Monday, May 12th. This gives you at least a full two weeks to create and ship CDs to your three group partners.
Please spread the word! More people equals more music! Just be sure to link to this URL, because eventually this entry will cycle off the main page.
If you have any other questions, you can e-mail or leave a comment.
Special thanks goes out to Alison for both the inspiration and allowing me to use most of her rules and guidelines.
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This sounds like such a fun idea. Hopefully there is still room for me. 
This is what I get when I don't get a chance to visit my favoritest blogging haunts. :D
Posted by Tricia at April 21, 2003 04:22 PM
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Life Changing Decisions
This week I made a decision that I think is going to change my life - hopefully for the better.
For the past several months, I've been in the grasp of the deepest depression, worse than anything I've ever experienced in the last seven years or so. I cry all the time, I sleep a lot, I'm comfort eating like crazy, and I feel constantly like my life is about to spin even further out of my control. I have no energy, yet I'm restless. Nothing holds my attention and I can't avoid black feelings that things will never improve and only get worse. My life has become a bleak, desolate, very lonely wasteland.
A few months ago I went to the doctor for something unrelated and he suggested I go on Paxil. I told him I'd think about it, but I didn't really consider it too strongly.
This past month has been so bad, however, that I've spoken to several people in my family, Steven, and my friends and I've decided that I need help and I've made the decision to start taking it.
I know where most of my stress is coming from (think dooce. E-mail me if you want details) and it's out of my hands to do much about it, which only leads to me feeling worse.
I'm hoping that taking Paxil will help me begin to get things back into a bearable state. Any good thoughts, well wishes, or the like that you can send my way will be very much appreciated.
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I'm sorry you're having a rough time. I don't know what else to say except that I hope whatever is causing you stress goes away soon (I know the Dooce story, I can only imagine what kind of issues are going on). As cheesy as it sounds, it helps when you realize what's within your control and what's out of your control, and realizing that you can't do anything about things that are out of your control. I hope you're feeling better again soon. :)
Posted by Alison at April 20, 2003 08:41 PM
I know this doesn't mean much coming from a complete stranger, but I've been there, and I promise, it does get better....
Posted by Merrin at April 20, 2003 08:51 PM
I have been reading for you a bit and wanted you to know, it does get better. A year and half ago I was in the grips of something I had never experienced before - sleeping all the time, struggling to get to work, crying, eating - the doctor finally put me on Paxil and even my hubby will agree - I am a changed woman. Feel free to email me if you have any questions. (hugs)
Posted by Sueellen at April 20, 2003 09:25 PM
Sorry to hear that you are going through a really rough time Kymberlie. I have no experience with paxil, so I cannot give you any insight on th aspect, but am sending you tons of squishy love. If there is ever anything you need, anything at all. We are here for you. *long hugs* hoping or brighter sunnier days... it will get better. *squish*
Posted by munin at April 20, 2003 09:32 PM
I've been going through the same kind of thing, trying to get a handle on the major bouts of depression that have hit since the end of last year and it took me until the beginning of March to actually tell my doctor that I couldn't control the up and downswings that I get. She put me on Effexor XR and it's helped more than I can say.
I hope the Paxil works for you, and if you ever want someone to talk/vent to, drop me an email. 
Posted by Lesa at April 20, 2003 09:34 PM
You're very brave to take this step, Kymberlie. It takes real strength to be able to say "I need help. Something needs to change." And taking medication to help depression is an excellent option. I know many people who have hesitated at first, taken the medication and said, "It saved my life." I know that the medication I take for my fibromyalgia (which is also caused by a chemical imbalance) makes it possible for me to participate in life... for that I am enormously grateful. I'll be thinking of you, sweetie.
Posted by Zuly at April 20, 2003 09:37 PM
Kymberlie, I'm sorry you are going through this. But, I am so glad you recognize it and are getting help. It will get better! I have a good friend who started taking Celexa about 6 weeks ago....WOW, what a difference.
Posted by Kim at April 20, 2003 10:33 PM
I'm sorry that you're having these problems and I do hope that the Paxil helps.
Sending good wishes your way...
Posted by Christine at April 20, 2003 11:16 PM
LIke everyone has said, I am sorry and I will send good thoughts your way.
Hang in there and if you ever need to chat, email me and we can jump on yahoo or something like that.
Posted by Martie at April 20, 2003 11:29 PM
Oh my gosh. I understand so well. In fact, if you ever want to talk, feel free to email me. I firmly believe in better living through chemicals, and also KNOW that depression is a disease.
My only recommendation, if you can do it, would be for you to go to a Psychiatrist and get a meds evaluation, rather than taking the first thing your regular doctor hands out.
I have recently done this and am very glad I did.
Again, feel free to ask me anything anytime.
Good luck.
Posted by Robin at April 21, 2003 08:00 AM
You have to keep us updated.
I've been on the brink of feeling like I need some kind of help myself. I guess it takes just deciding that you do. But that's a big decision. I'm proud of anyone who makes it.
Posted by Crinkle at April 21, 2003 08:21 AM
I've been on zoloft for about 3 years now and I can tell immediately when I miss a dose. My doctor told me that it's like the clouds clearing - and she was exactly right - if I could describe it those are the exact words I would use. You'll be able to see things more clearly and you will feel better. Sometimes it just doesn't get better without help and sometimes talking through it isn't the answer. I did the talk therapy but the drug therapy worked so much quicker and better. This is one decision that it sounds like you need to make and I say you're making the right one. If the paxil doesn't work right away, don't worry, it may just not be the right dosage or right drug. You'll get there.
Posted by jana at April 21, 2003 10:57 AM
good luck girl :)
*mwah*
Posted by gnome-girl at April 21, 2003 11:27 AM
It's great that you're taking a step to make yourself feel better. Sending good thoughts your way.
Posted by tasha. at April 21, 2003 12:05 PM
You should take Karate with me, it makes me feel better to beat the crap out of people. :-)
Posted by Russell at April 21, 2003 04:00 PM
From what I have heard, Paxil takes about 5-6 weeks to build up and take effect.
Good luck!
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Posted by ginadapooh at April 21, 2003 11:18 PM
I'm definitely thinking of you and hope you find the strength to get through the days ahead. I really admire you for being honest with yourself first -- then all of us. I'll keep you in my thoughts!
Posted by robyn at April 21, 2003 11:24 PM
Hope the Paxil works well for you. I reluctantly took Prozac years ago and it certainly helped me over a rough period in my life. Sending healing vibes your way.
Posted by Susan at April 22, 2003 02:10 AM
I hope it helps. My cloud clearing came with getting a new job ... just a thought. You said you can't do much about it, but you can. You might have to switch to a different field, but I suspect you would be *so* much happier having some control in your life instead of the mayhem.
You know where to find me, and I'm happy to talk any day or time. Maybe some night we could get together for dinner? I miss our lunchtime together! :) Sending you bunches of love & positive thoughts...
Posted by Christine at April 22, 2003 07:38 PM
I was in the same condition when my doctor realized that I have thyroid problem. Ask your doc to test for t4, t3 as well as for tsh. Chaces could be high! Good luck and wish you the best!
A stranger
Posted by Mitra at March 5, 2004 06:21 PM
I feel as though I am at a cross roads. I currently work out of my house and I have absolutely no incentive to do my job. Every now and then I get a boost of energy and complete the neede tasks. I am most happy when I travel to see customers but the problem is that I am left with so much work to catch up with because of the constant travel. I feel like I want to run out of the house and never turn back. I have a very sweet and supporting husband who wants me to find another job, which is very difficult. I am comfort eating all the time and I have gained so much weight that I sink deeper into depression. My husband and I leave for a wonderful trip to Europe in 10 days and I am not even excited about it. WHAT is wrong with me??? On top of everything else, we want to start a family....how do you find a decent new job when you are pregnant? I know I am probably a very selfish person, I just don't want to be in the fog anymore. I want to be happy again. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thank you for listening.
Posted by Lila at April 13, 2004 11:19 AM
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If you look in the sidebar, you'll see a new section under comment leaders that shows the people with the most comments this month. You can now lead for the month and for totals on the site, so leave me lots of comments. I found the script at Scripty Goddess (of course) and you can get it here if you want to add it to your site.
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Posted by Lisa, Gal of Unix at April 20, 2003 09:27 PM
I just want to know how you do the "Show this months" and then you can close it. THAT rocks.
Posted by Robin at April 21, 2003 08:05 AM
Cooolies!!! I'm a contender for the big numbers in the month of April! :)
Posted by susan at April 21, 2003 08:31 AM
This one is fun, I added it recently as well :)
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Happy Birthday, Shawn!
Today is Shawn's birthday. She broke her little toe yesterday, so go over there and give her some birthday lovin' to make her feel better. Happy birthday, Shawn!
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Adding Some Zen
I loved the Daily Zen template that Eka offered up at Miz Dos Graphics, so with a little tweaking it is now skin seventeen here at The Neurotic Fishbowl. You can test it out here.
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Oh wow - I love that one!
Posted by susan at April 18, 2003 08:08 PM
I loved this one too! :) Looks great hon!
Posted by Crystal at April 18, 2003 11:08 PM
Nice! I like this one. =)
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The Real Thing
Remember Honda Accord commercial I blogged about last week?
I was positive that it had to be done in cgi because I didn't think it would be possible to do something like that in real life. Turns out I was wrong. It took 606 takes, but everything you see was completely real. Absolutely amazing.
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That is one of the best commercials I've ever seen! That was so much fun to watch. Thanks.
Posted by Buzz at April 18, 2003 12:13 PM
That is awesome. I am so impressed by feats like that. Amazing!
Posted by tasha. at April 18, 2003 12:15 PM
Wow! That was great:)
Posted by Daphne at April 18, 2003 02:15 PM
that was great, kymberlie! i had to watch it twice. did this actually air on TV? okay, maybe not, as it's a UK Honda. but WOW anyway.
Posted by Kathy at April 18, 2003 02:30 PM
wow, i can see why it took 606 takes. amazing.
Posted by LillyAnne at April 18, 2003 06:22 PM
I watched it like 10 times. Wish I could see all the detail...
Posted by :: jozjozjoz :: at April 18, 2003 08:16 PM
Know anyone in the UK? Maybe we can get them to send us a few DVDs of it (linked to it in todays post, sorry, can't ping at the moment)
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Nap Time
You know how you're just going to lay down for just a minute, only close your eyes for just a few seconds? Two and half hours later, my minute is finally up. 
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Those are the best minutes to have!
Posted by susan at April 17, 2003 08:43 PM
LOL I agree with Susan, those are the best minutes! Some days I WISH I could just get a few minutes! ;)
Posted by Crystal at April 17, 2003 08:52 PM
Oh yes, done that a lot of times ;)
Posted by kristine at April 17, 2003 09:09 PM
Yeah dude, that was me today. I lay down on the couch, and Maury Povich is on...and I think, "This dude sucks, I'll just shut my eyes for un momentito." Half a century later, I find myself jumping off the couch, hurrying to be out the door and in class on time. It was so worth it, though.
Posted by natalie at April 17, 2003 09:18 PM
Ooo! Sometimes that happens when I blink?!?
Posted by Daphne at April 17, 2003 11:50 PM
I had one of those minutes while driving once...not a good minute then. Interesting blog.
Posted by beerconsumer at April 18, 2003 12:12 AM
A minute when sleeping is eternal. Do you remember your dreams afterwards?
Posted by Camilo at April 18, 2003 12:35 AM
Mine came two and a half years later. =0)
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Reasons For Love #24
Every Wednesday those who are involved in a relationship with somebody share a few (simple but significant) reasons for their love. Please keep in mind that this does not have to be a romantic relationship. It can be about a parent, a sibling, a friend, a co-worker, your kid, your dog, whatever.
Stop in here to join the notify list, see who else has left their reasons, and to be added to the blogroll. Also, feel free to save the button below to your server and link it to http://www.neuroticfishbowl.com/reasons.html
I love Steven because...
- He's just as excited as I am about the poker tournament show on the Travel Channel
- We can talk poker strategy for hours
- We have a fish that is really sick and Steven feeds him by hand since he can't swim
- He's sweeter on the cat than he thinks is manly to admit, but I can tell
- He did some researching and found me a great deal on tires (hate to spend the money on them, but need them badly)
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mine are up
Posted by ed at April 17, 2003 12:26 AM
Mine are up!
Posted by MishMIsh at April 17, 2003 07:28 AM
They are up!!
Posted by Jennifer at April 17, 2003 09:26 AM
Mine are up
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It's a Group Thing LIII
Since there is a war going on, I thought today's "It's a Group Thing" term would deal with it. Therefore, today's term is:
A Mess of Privates
For those of you who missed what this is all about, each week I will feature a term for groups of things from An Exaltation of Larks: The Ultimate Edition by James Lipton. I found the book really interesting and wanted to share it with everyone.
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Animal Wallpapers
Cat or dog lover? Check out Page-a-Day's cat and dog wallpapers. I particularly like the big flully Himalayan cat.
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WWW.beautifulwallpapers.com
is great
Posted by sam at July 26, 2003 10:36 PM
Hi Abbey (savanah)
I particularly like the adorable siamese cat and non-pedigree cats
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Repeating Comments
I meant to post this the other day, but it totally slipped my mind. Thanks to Scripty Goddess, I found a very MT simple hack that will prevent multiple comments from being posted. Get it here.
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New Editions to the Fishbowl
I got a wild hair and went fish shopping at lunch today. I drove down to the big fish store, but they didn't have anything that I was really interested. I swung by the PetSmart literally across the street from work and they had two beautiful orandas - a blue one (think silverish colored) and a black one with bronze hints. They were kind of expensive ($25 a piece), but since they're around three inches long including the tail, it wasn't a bad price.
I talked Steven into going over there with me after he went to the gym to get one of them. I was set on the black one, but the more I looked at the blue one, the prettier he seemed. Since we're down to just a few fish and only one in the fifty-five gallon tank, I splurged and bought both of them.
We also picked up a new (fake) plant and a large plastic ornament, about a foot high, that looks like gnarled roots. I really like the character that it hads to the tank.
Needless to say, I am quite the happy fish girl right now. 
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Congratulations on the new additions to your fishy family! They both sound beautiful, and I can't wait to see pictures!
Posted by Christine at April 16, 2003 12:13 AM
Cool! We used to have a fish tank and the kids absolutely loved it, but they fish started eating each other?!?! YIKES! Soooo, we got rid of it. Congrats on your new additions!
Posted by Crystal at April 16, 2003 10:36 AM
I have a 55-gallon too and I love it (I've had it about 8 or 9 years)! I just got about 10 new fish but they are all small! Sounds like you got a great pair... :)
Posted by Angel at April 16, 2003 08:23 PM
I can't wait to get a tank set setup, I had to give away all my fish but Spike (betta) when we moved here. Now with the new house getting squared away, I am so ready for another tank.
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Junior Varsity?
Steven's back here watching Fox News and one of the reporters just said, I shit you not, that Israel was part of the "junior varsity Axis of Evil." The junior varsity? Man, Israel must be so crushed! You know their mother would have been so proud if they had made varsity and gotten a letter! How sad for them! 
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LMAO! THey're the Diet Coke of Evil. Just one calorie, not evil enough.
(giggle!)
Posted by Angel at April 15, 2003 11:47 PM
dude, if i was Israel, i'd be pissed. i mean, they've got weapons of mass destruction... how can they be JV?
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Not Much To Say
It's been a crap day for multiple reasons, so I'm not going to post anything. Feel free to cheer me up by joining Burn It - The Spring Edition or buying me a present. Yes, it's a pathetic plea for love, but it's been a really shitty week and it's only Monday.
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